Thank you so much for all of the support I have found on this forum. I could not have made it the last 3 months without you all. I would be in a puddle of despair and desperation.
S4 and I have had a great day playing, being silly, and snuggling on the couch. We went to our favorite place, Target, shopping. I agree that he is only 4 and doesn't know how to express what he is feeling yet. I think that is a great opportunity for me to practice validation.
I spoke to H today on the phone to touch base about next week. I also talked to him about what happened on Wednesday and he got a little defensive in the sense that he kept saying "I didn't do it intentionally". I let him know that I knew that and I was only upset because the decision wasn't made as a team. He agreed we need to communicate better. Then he got real interested in what our plans were for the day and asked me if I had everything I needed for the trip and if I was excited. This was new. He hasn't said one word about my trip or ever took an interest in what I was doing. I think that was a positive step.
I am going to take that he keeps saying we need to communicate better positively. He keeps saying that to me but it hasn't really changed. I know that is something I am working on being better at, I hope he is too.
1 more day until a week of sun, sand, relaxation, and sister time. I may or may not jump on here while I am gone. I probably won't have anything to report but do want to keep on everyone's sitches.
Me:33 H:36 T:13 years M:10 years S4 Separated 05/15 H Filed 06/15
