Those are some really good signs! I've found what works too is adding the "pre-dating" vibe. I think it's easy for our S's to pigeonhole us, expect us to be the same old boring, (even irritating) person that they have known all these years- and pumping up the excitement and "new you" is key to create a new, enticing, almost flirty vibe with them(and get flirtier in time). What are some of the things you did/ways you acted before you and W were "officially together"? Like getting back to the mode where you were both new, fresh, and fun to each other- everything from the way you talk, dress(wear something sexy more often, cologne?), things you do...etc That is so great you are giving W backrubs and she's spending more time with you. This is happening for you!
Master the self-fulfilling prophecy.. Act 'as if' it's going to happen and make it be!!
