I have been given the gift of 1 month. H wants to D and has given me until after D16 birthday to start process.

Sounds like irrational MLC, but I have to be strong for D15.

I'm dying inside, reading posts all the time and keeping up appearances. DB book in transit. Coaching session Tuesday. One day at a time...

Suggestions welcome. (Thanks Cadet for own post)

Don't even know how to add signature.

Me 50 H 50
T 20 M 17
D15
EA Feb 2014
NILWY bomb Sept 2015