Maybe meet her but don't make your schedule too available, make her offer a few choices of times/dates because you are busy. And get a friend to text you multiple times while you are out, you don't have to answer the texts, but you want to appear busy and in demand. I don't know, just posting what pops into my head. I find getting a lot of texts makes my H curious. He doesn't have to know it is my 7 year old nephew texting me about minecraft, he just notices the texts coming in.
