Yeah, try not to think too much about what the kids say. They don't mean it, it just a rough time for them also and things are confusing. My D4 would tell me last year pre-BD she wanted me to go in the big water (die). I took it personal at first but its just how all kids are.
Time to start a new thread.
Accept what is, let go of what was, and have faith in what will be
