imo, it just sounds like you 2 never resolved any issues...sleeping with someone 3days before getting M...pretty big deal..not sure i could even still marry her if she did that. I feel that you guys (granted you married very young) didnt fully understand M and just bounced around to various people to get your EA/PA needs met.
Obviously you've matured since then..but I'm wondering, have you ever truly forgiven her for cheating on you and the things she did? Has she ever done the same for you? Why not seek counseling years ago when all this happened?
ME: 28 W: 24 M: 2.5yrs T: 5yrs BD: 22 SEP 14 W Leaves: 5 OCT 14