I understand that it would be easy(er) to walk away with no kids, but at this point if i really am honest with myself I want our marriage to work.
This weekend we were supposed to go to a wedding for W's brothers friend. During W's A I found out she was texting OM, and sending him pics of her at the other 2 weddings we had this summer. Of course I told her no way would I be going with her, and am trying to implement Sandi's 37 steps. However, she keeps promising that the A is over. Am i missing an important event to try and reconnect by skipping the wedding?
Emotionally I am a mess...seeing her drives me crazy, I know I can't tell her what i need to get over her A. But she shows not nearly enough remorse for me, and no effort for intimacy. Its like a power struggle, as to who is willing to walk away,
