The end result will be the same no matter which way I go - I suppose filling out the form and going through of the hoops would probably save him some money and be more gracious - so I'll probably just do it.
It's true that STBX has a way of spinning things in his head to feel like the injured party and I don't want to give him any ammunition.
When he moved back to town, my MIL rather hopefully asked me what the status was of our divorce, and given his own indifference, it probably ignited a little hope within me. Truth be told however, as is frequently mentioned on this board, it really is just a piece of paper. We have been living a completely divorced life for a year now.
