Hi Haunted, I agree with Job about doing some reading about MLC.

The more you understand what to expect the better IMHO. That way, when something does happen, instead of feeling devastated you may think 'ah yes, I've read about this and I understand to expect some anger' etc.. That's progress I think.

Remember that your H is probably going to do nothing that is good for you, or your R in the near future. This is why self-care and self-education are so important....

I agree about posting to others too....it can attract people onto your thread and that way you'll receive more rounded advice and input.

Take care, Sotto x

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T 13 M 7
Me 48 H 46
SS 15
BD 7.14 PA
D final 5.16 (H filed)

We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus