I've no idea what to do in your situation and I'm curious to see which way you'll go. My dilemma is whether I should file jointly with her or not. If I don't, it will add costs and delays, but at least it would put on the record that I didn't want this divorce. Thinking about it, I don't see how that's going to help anyone. It's pretty clear to everyone that I didn't want this D. I'm not sure I understand the process and consequences, but what's the upside for you of avoiding this latest form?
M39 D6 D3 (at S) S 2014-09 D 2016-09
"You can't start a fire sitting around, crying over a broken heart" - Bruce Springsteen.