First Contact in Six Months Please Help

[Vanilla]

My philosophy is that it's isn't my job to forgive, I am responsible for me only. Forgiveness is from the higher spirit to the one requiring it. All they have to do is ask, ask and you shall be forgiven. It is for us to ask, do I need to be forgiven, is my weakness the tempatation for the other. Was my lack of boundaries making life difficult for WH and my life more of a struggle? So I learn it would be best if I developed reasonable boundaries, detachment, and let go of WH allowing him to be who is, to relate to his higher power.

Love, forgiveness, connection and letting go are all a choice, the choice is not for self, it is for self to be a channel. A channel for change, to allow the gift of reason, the gift of knowledge. Once we know, realise, we can no longer be blind.

I believe this is as it is, it is my gift to WH to be the channel for forgiveness, the bridge for the higher power when and if he asks for this. He may never seek his soul, may never reflect from his own core. That does not matter, the higher power will do as it needs.

I have let go of the need to forgive, it is my choice to ask for myself. Long ago I decide to channel my higher power, that was the only choice I needed.

V