I think I belong in Piecing...

[Painter]

That's what I was wondering. I posted in the Infidelity forum to get some ideas for how to handle this - the whole story is there.

Now I'm uncertain again... H suggested that someone OW dated before the A could be the fiance. But when I first found out about the A, he told me she hadn't been with anyone for years before H. So a clear contradiction there...