When I was new I was desperate for people to encourage me to have hope based on every kind word my STBX uttered (which was probably out of guilt/manipulation 99% of the time)...but that didn't help me. I wish I'd have listened to the people that were telling me to let go and move forward. Maybe it's too soon still to hear this. I'm sorry guys. I feel the pain Sorgan. I do. I just want you to take care of yourself.
^^ i think this goes for everyone new on this board. Id encourage you as well to just take care of yourself. Hanging on to her every word, which after a year of separation for me, is difficult to not do because thats all you want to hear. Hope. That somewhere in what she says is the possibility of R.
Apologizing for something like messing up a food order..is small potatoes. Thats the least of your worries..take sandi up on her challenge of going a week without saying sorry. Standup for yourself. I wish i did that much sooner than I did. I know its the hardest thing in the world. Don't be a dick. But don't let her walk all over you. Trust me. it just gives her what she wants and eventually she'll tire of it and all you've done is put yourself in more hurt.
ME: 28 W: 24 M: 2.5yrs T: 5yrs BD: 22 SEP 14 W Leaves: 5 OCT 14
