Just remember that he IS 4. He doesn't really understand love (oh, he'll. do any of us?)

My kids will say that one minute and then be the sweetest most loving things 15 minutes later.

He loves you, ep. He's just confused about what's going on, and took it out on you. Get on the floor and play ALL OF THE TRAINS tomorrow with him.

By the way, you may not want to be saying "I love daddy too" to him. I'd focus on your relationship with S. You can say that daddy loves him. But I think it can be confusing to say you love daddy....because he's going to ask why you aren't together. Then what will you say?

My 6 year old told me he didn't feel like she belonged in any family the other day. He's been with me, at W's and a lot at grandma's (when W has been away working). I had to tell him that he and his sister will always be MY family. Now he just has more families. And they all love him.

I hate this part the most.

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