Quote: If your wife is anything like me, she will probably want to help out this guy at the expense of herself because she is a kind person
I think you are very right about this. W is and has always been a very kind person. It is something that actually worried me when I got paranoid about the whole sitch earlier on, and started thinking that all the progress we're making is just her being kind to me--but there are too many babysteps in our closeness of recent to merit an explanation like that. And I do get the feeling sometime when talking to her that part of her relationship with him is somehow like counseling or something.
Quote: {{{{{RENEW&W}}}}} That's the best I could do, sorry buddy.