I don't pretend to know whether his M can be saved. My opinion is that emotionally clinging to that as the only acceptable outcome, with WAW finalizing a D equating to the end of the universe is crazy making, painful, and can make growth hard. And that letting go and moving on not only doesn't hurt the chances of rebuilding a new M, it helps it by allowing a return of confidence, personal growth, and serenity.
There's room for feedback from others, and I appreciate everyone for their contributions.
Me:38 XW:38 T:11 years M:8 years Kids: S14, D11, D7 BD/Move out day: 6/17/14, D final Dec 15
