How odd Sunny - My H also came and got his bike after he moved out. Hadn't used it for years and years.

I can completely relate to your post about being left to manage absolutely everything on your own. Its just so overwhelming sometimes isn't it? I never used to worry about problems with the car or the plumbing or electrics as H sorted everything. If it was a job he couldn't manage himself, he could get someone else to fix it within hours. But since he left I've managed a few DIY jobs myself (with the help of S18).

And don't you think a clutter-free, teenager-free apartment would get a tad boring? I certainly do.

Have a great weekend xx


Me - 44 Husband - 47
D20, S18
BD - Aug 2013
Moved out - Jan 2014
OW discovered Jan 2014