WAH - gone almost 1 year, still so hard.

[stacey9]

Thank you Sotto and Jim for your sound advice.

I've still not decided what to do. I spoke to another L to ask about a second opinion but apparently its not the done thing while I have my own L on board. I can try and speak to a client case manager but I'm pretty sure it won't get me anywhere.

H's L seems to have made all the decisions on how things should end up (best for H of course) and I can either agree or go to court. My L has backed down completely and can see no other way to resolve it other than to give in.

I hate divorce.

Thanks again guys for all your invaluable advice.