H has started an affair

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First, it's good he is thinking of what YOU are doing. Whatever GAL'ing and detaching you are doing is working. Be mysterious, it will keep him wondering about YOU and get his mind off OW. The new,confident, independent YOU is desirable. Like I said, get new perfume and sexy underwear or clothes. Maybe change the bedroom to what YOU want it to be to get him off balance. These are actions that he can see that you don't need to tell him about but convey a message.