Hello, it is very fitting that I start a new thread with some new news to share.

Last evening H tells me that he has broken things off with OW. Big news right? Why do I feel so conflicted? I guess because I realize that there is still so much more to our R than just her. She was a big part but not the whole. We both agreed that we do not want to change the things we are doing currently. Phew. Im not ready. I still have so much more to learn here, my work is not done.

I dont have time to write more now but I will as there is lots to discuss and digest. I do want to say thank you again to everyone on here that is guiding me through one of the most difficult journeys I have ever been on. I would not be going on a date tonight with my spouse if it werent for all of you.

Big hugs and kisses to all, wish me luck.


Married 1991
D 32 GD 12
D 30 GD 3
S 29
M 58
S 57
1st bomb 2008
2nd bomb 4/2015 same person
New bomb 09/24
I fear those big words which make us so unhappy.