as_it_is - my adventure continues (part 4)

[asitis]

LOL. Yes. Her partner is a cop, so even if I were interested, I'd look for my coffee elsewhere thank you. No, she just is a really good soul and one of the few people that has enough experience and background to be really insightful and interesting to talk shop with. I don't feel like it becomes a tutoring session with her, as I do with many of the others.

BTW, she highly recommended John Gottman's What Makes Love Last? While the title makes it sound like many of his other books which focuses on how to strengthen a struggling marriage, this one talks about healing the marriage after the split or betrayal. I haven't read it, but I just placed an order. She's strong on saving the M unless there is abuse (and she had an abusive R before, so she understands that well).