I have been in the same situation and replied, "I'm a married woman. I don't go on dates with other men than my husband."

But I don't feel very competent at giving any input right now...

M 16 yrs, WH62, P54
3 adult blended kids
EA 11/13, BD1 6/14
PA fall 14, BD2 2/15
Piecing 2015, BD3 12/15
Separated 4/16
WH moved OW in 5/16
Divorced 6/15/17