Up until now, I have been involved in the business - especially in the books. He doesn't really have any credit cards of his own. I spent almost every weekend helping him at the store and working on projects he didn't want to do. There is a strong possibility he will lose the store without me - even his family thinks so. I have transferred most of the money from the checking account already into another account that is just my own.
I am not sure about the red flags. I think I am still looking at the relationship through rose-colored glasses. I have been mostly focusing on what I could have done better. I know I wasn't as emotionally supportive to him as he needed and I know that is something I need to focus on improving with myself. Not just for our relationship, but for future relationships.
My sister never liked him and thought he didn't treat me well enough. She was the only one though an she felt that way because he didn't treat me the way her husband treated her.
I have always been pretty independent and don't need any one to take care of me. My H was able to provide companionship and we had a lot of great experiences together.
