After discovering she still had contact (a week ago) i Kicked her out of the room, and followed Sandi's advice for a WW. She swore it was over this time, and that she just wants to work on us. This is a woman i used to be able to trust with my life...so reluctantly I said she can move back as long as it is just us. Naive? Probably. However, I am a mess. I'm not sure if I will take her back, and she isn't sure if she will be happy in our marriage, but we both know there is love and potential for a saved marriage.
W wants me to attend a wedding with her brother, and his friends this weekend. I don't think she deserves to have me there with her. Especially since the last wedding we attended she was texting/involved with OM. Should i stay firm and not go? Or go and try to forge new connections?
Maybe I am being too naive and I still need to stay on the WS remedy and have her live/sleep elsewhere.
