Is there something I can do here to help, or just leave it alone?
I don't think it's anything you are, or aren't doing, that seems to pi$$ her off. I think it is all her, and she is reacting this way b/c of her own emotional issues. She could get professional guidance, or work it out herself........but I don't think the LBH should try to "help". IMHO, it would make matters worse if offered, tried to talk to her, or asked questions. It would open the door for her wrath. So, my advice is to leave it alone. Case in point, look how fast she leaped on the lack of trust issue in the below quote.
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Last night she asked me to get her marriage license and something else for paperwork. I asked if I could have it back. She then asked if I needed it to do something behind back. I said no I just wanted the memory along with other things. She then said she guessed it was all the trust she lost.
I think the LBH should not says things that make him look "pitiful" b/c in her eyes, he appears weak. (sentence in bold)
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
