About 6 yrs ago when I was trying so hard to get H back interested in anything physical I finally just said, ok, if you will not go out with me and be social (he would not even go to a party or dance or anything with me) I am going to start going out with friends. His idea of a good night is sitting in front of the TV watching Sci-fi. About a month later, out of the blue, he said to me......... You know if you find someone you would like to spend the night with just call and let me know you will not be home so I don't worry I could not believe he said that.
I could not believe he said that. 
