Well, you cant be in "no contact" when you have a young child together.
But what good is working on this connection right now? I dont know whats in these cards, but all sending her love notes will do is make her feel guilty for hurting you. But it isnt like she is going to "snap out of it" from a note, so all she is going to do is either not respond or tell you again that she doesnt love you "like that" anymore. Both of those outcomes will hurt both of you. So, whats the point?
If youve read the books, what are your goals? What kinds of 180s are you working on?
