Yep, they sure do love to say that they are happier after leaving. That's the MLC script talking. Why wouldn't they be happier? Heck, they've got their freedom, no ties to home, and yes, you are the one that is taking care of the home responsibilities, being a full time parent, etc. They don't have to deal w/real life on a daily basis. They are kids that have run away from home w/no responsibilities.
I'm not surprised that he attempted to take his name off the account. Many of them want to cut all ties and his comment about you not trusting him...well, he doesn't trust himself. That comment is called "projection". You may see more of this as he travels the MLC path.
Read all that you can on MLC and depression.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
