Thanks guys. My situation: my WAW of 3 years left 6 wks ago and filed for D, but we have a 1.5 year old boy. My WAW had 2 affairs lasting our whol 3 years married, sh is now diagnosed w sex addiction, and in 12 step group, therapist, owning up to it... but also creating "boundaries" by moving out, and mad so she filed for D. She is mad at the way I handled finding out about the affairs; I was mean for a few months. I have owned up to it, and have thrown myself into my own "recovery" efforts like therapy, reading, workshop for sex addict spouse, etc. But she is bent on divorce. Any further thoughts? Or just work the whole program?
