*need help*

[barbie7]

Very bad day today..he called the girls and got on the phone with me..here's the conversation the best I can remember it

H-are you going to meet us?

Me-nope..either you take her car here by yourself or if ya'll both come she stays parked on the road and you come to the door and get them..she is not allowed on this property

H-oh you're going to be like that

M-I too you I don't want to be around her..nobody would want to be

H-oh ok you're going to be like that

M-you know damn good and well if I left you and the kids for another man you wouldn't want to be around him

H-if he treated the girls good I'd have to respect him..you're going to have to respect her because she respects you

M-I can't believe I'm having this conversation..its cruel and heartless that you soul want me to be around her

H-it's not about you..i want to get my girls and I can't drive my truck I'm in her car..you need to cooperate BC you're a parent too and you should at least meet us halfway

M-look I will cooperate with you but I don't have to be around her..amd i never said you couldn't get the kids..and I don't have to meet you my van is breaking down and it's your responsibility to come get them and nobody else wants to be around y'all either BC you know how we feel about what you did

H-*screaming* oh nobody else wants to be around us?! I don't care!

M-look call me tomorrow and I'll let you know what I decide..bye

H-bye

That's all I remember..and I talked to the lawyer and we have to be separated for a year before we can get divorced BC we have kids..so until next August BC it's a year from the date he got served..then to top it off I was on the phone with his mom and she thought I hung up but she didn't hang her end up and I heard her and his dad talking bad about me..

the same people who I have been talking to for months about everything and spending the night at their house a lot and thought they were on my side..seems they don't approve of what he's doing but have been talking about me behind my back all this time..

that's good to know BC they own this house and my van and help me all the time and are the only ppl I had out here besides him..my parents live 4 plus hours away and are divorced and I don't like it where they live so I can't exactly move anywhere..and my kids have been acting bad and out of control..I broke down in tears earlier BC this is too much for me to handle..

his mom told me he called them a while after he talked to me and was as nice as can be and he told her he only wants to see his girls and she *OW* is a very nice person..i see what him and her are doing..they want everyone to hate me and like him and her..they're trying to bribe the kids telling them they're going to do all kinds of fun stuff with them and buy them stuff..i just can't take anymore I've already had enough a long time ago..

if things get worse idk what to do..he's a very hateful..cold hearted person now and I don't even have words for her..i don't have any interest in ever reconciling and neither does he..honestly I wish they would divorce us sooner BC I'm ready to not be tied to him anymore and I'm pretty sure him and her are planning on getting married..all I can do is pray but it seems things are getting worse for me