I agree that a court order will add some clarity to a very confusing and scary process. If you see my last post you'll know I understand what a nightmare this process can be.
I also agree it's a concern to have a man you don't know aroudn your young ones. What has your L said about that? Are there any resources you can get to help lead conversations with your children about ways to keep their eyes open and be close to you? This is a tricky spot and something I am glad I don't have to deal with. WW has had a number of guys, but as destructive as she is she wouldn't let anything happen to the kids. Praying for you.
Keep posting.
PS- You know what's in FL don't you?!?
Me:38 XW:38 T:11 years M:8 years Kids: S14, D11, D7 BD/Move out day: 6/17/14, D final Dec 15
