You have received stellar advice and some analogies that I must use moving forward. I have followed your sitch since the beginning and you seem like a great guy.
I still stand by what I've always thought about your wife. She wants and needs constant validation and admiration. You've stated a number of times that she wants to "connect sexually" or "feel sexually attracted to you" again. That's her way of blaming you for the way she feels. If she does that, it (in her mind) gives her a free pass with OM. And hails to the no there was no accidental, inadvertent tonsil hockey.
You aren't handing her over. You are letting her go. She will do what she does whether you are in the house with her or not. You are only torturing yourself. Is that really what you want? I hope you spelled out "nope" during Scrabble.
You are a good guy. Life is short.
3 kids BD 12/15/13 (IDKIILY. ) Rope dropped Cirque du Soleil style D final 9-9-14 "Some people are born on 3rd base and go through life thinking they hit a triple." Barry Switzer
