Thank you dwh. I am trying my best to stay upbeat, at least for my kids. It is just very hard to share the same house with her right now, but my kids deserve better than what she is capable of currently. She is moody and constantly tired. I still don't know where this will lead me, but this board has given me optimism for either outcome (D or a fresh R with my wife). While the wounds are still fresh and I am still pained by the thought of a D. I can see myself being a stronger better person at the end of this.
