It's been almost a year.

[dwh15]

Unfortunately, you probably are going to have to file for child support if you want to be sure of getting the money and not having to ask for it every month. The laws vary by location, but sometimes you can seek support w/o having to file for D. Probably best to speak with an attorney to confirm. Many will give you an hour or two initial consultation and not charge anything.

It's sad, but if you are the one taking care of the kids, I think you need to put their needs first and make sure you are covered. What happens if your H suddenly decides one month he's not going to pay? Do you have any savings or a backup plan? Your kids need to be protected; put them first. It doesn't mean you stop loving your H, or having hope that you can still work things out. Maybe you can even speak with him about your concerns and see if he would be willing to agree to something in writing. But I would suggest talking to an attorney first, and finding out your options. Good luck, and take care of those kids.