I was also wondering about the GAL part. Does time with my childeren included in that? Because unfortunately they take my time from whenever i get off work until 8-9 pm when i put them to bed.
I find that while GAL with my kids is GREAT, it just can't be the only way. Meeting new people, having new experiences is so important to take your mind off of your situation and to help reinvent you. Even if it's just one night a week, that's something.