Have been busy this week havent posted much. I just registered for an adult ed class nutritional eating and mindfulness.. its a start.. also hoping to keep the 30 lbs ive lost off since all this began in april.

The time is dragging but other than that things are going smoothly. Nothing solid yet in the way of answers or progressing toward the relationship mending yet but I believe we are slowly making progress. I will take this as slowly as necessary to make sure we are going to make a better marriage going forward. I hope he will be willing to do the work when it is his turn.

I wont settle for just having him back. Im investing now for a good return on my investment later.


Married 1991
D 32 GD 12
D 30 GD 3
S 29
M 58
S 57
1st bomb 2008
2nd bomb 4/2015 same person
New bomb 09/24
I fear those big words which make us so unhappy.