Quote: Listen, it's not about divorce. It's about play time with friends.
That's a dangerous game, HJ. Tempting, to be sure, but it's nothing but an exit strategy, and a bad one at that. W and I have so many problems now, why would I think that infidelity would help matters? It would just add to the list, not to mention being one more thing driving a wedge between us and killing any hope of real intimacy. Not a good solution at all. Even if she didn't find out, you don't actually "get away" with anything... how motivated would I be to stay and work on our issues if I was getting satisfied on the side?
