Yesterday our babysitter told me that H and kids were late coming home (for H to go to work) so that she had to wait outside for 30min. I asked H about it and he told me "yes I went to eat" It's hard to think H would be late just because he took kids to lunch since he had more than enough time to get back on time if it's just lunch with kids. Now I'm paranoid that H took kids to have lunch with OW, but I haven't asked him about it.
Now he texted me saying I can go out tonight if I like and he will watch the kids. H doesn't want me in the house? I have an appo with IC tonight anyway, so I decided to go to dinner too, I just replied "ok I will do that thanks" but agh.....