Just an update on my situ - H text yesterday (day before my birthday) nice - and wanted to know how we were going to split things up and now wants 50/50 shared care of our S who he has been absent from for the last 8 months for the most part.
It upset me greatly. With H's anger that he has and is nonexistence I do not want him to have 50%. I told him no way would I agree to that and he proceeded to get very angry. I suspect that he has calculated child support because he made a point to say I would still pay some child support with shared care.
To prove my point yesterday he was to pick S up from school and have him from 3:00 until 5:30 instead he dropped him at the house and left at 3:10 to go work a side job. If he is so concerned about spending time with his S wouldn't he stay and watch him like he is suppose to?
