Originally Posted By: Elly4

My H wants to drop my S off at school on Friday morning, and I've been obsessing about the "why". He said it could be fun, but in the time that my son has gone to toddler and preschool, my H has never shown an interest in dropping him off. So, I'm suspicious. But I shouldn't be, because I'm supposed to be detached.. SIGH

I know my S will be safe, so I should just leave it be.


Leave it be. like you said he will be safe...he may even enjoy the different scenario, daddy dropping him off at work.

i'd even make husband get your son ready for school to...because you have something else to do (make him take the good with the bad - and I know I get my kids ready for school 4 of 5 days a week for the last 9 years so I know the struggles).

Embrace the extra time you will have then. meet a friend for coffee, have a nice breakfast...whatever you can think of. This is an opportunity to grab life by the balls and do something for you.


M - 40's
W - 30's
Two Sons
Living together