Thanks uRworthy. You sound nice and calm!

I handled his spew in completely the wrong way. I KNOW what i need to do but I just had to get it out last night. I was already on edge as we were about to tell the kids we were seperating - that's why he came over.

I threw it all at him. It's quite strange but I noticed that every single thing he said to me last night was patronising. I had nver realised that before.

Another thing he said "I never wanted to leave you and the children." (he;s been with OW for 5 years now). Said with a completely straight face. shocked

Thanks H. Thanks for the truly magnificent honor of being 2nd in your life.

I find it incredulous that he can't see how insulting this is!!!


Married Dec. 1997
EA discovered April 2011
H lived at home until August 10th 2015
Separated August 10th 2015
kids aged 8. 14 and 15
I think we're done.