Hill,

TonyP threatened to put together a site to do just that, but now he is piecing his life back together with his wife. She is the one that had the affair, and I think that they were an HD couple.

Seems that having a site to meet other HD folks online would be an idea, I just don't think that it would be a good idea for here. We hear too often of OP that interfere in the relationship, EA's and PA's, this would just facilitate things to make marriages end sooner. Is that the goal that we want to achieve here?

I know how tempted I have been to have a fling or so, but not a good idea, and a place to meet could lead to an affair. Temptation is a powerful motivator, and we HD folks have enough guilt without adding to it with the possibility of Temptaion hanging over our heads.

After the D is all said and done, IF that is what eventually happens, that is another story, but I still think that having a special site like this would be a counterproductive thing to do.

My 2 cents,

Johanna