TonyP threatened to put together a site to do just that, but now he is piecing his life back together with his wife. She is the one that had the affair, and I think that they were an HD couple.
Seems that having a site to meet other HD folks online would be an idea, I just don't think that it would be a good idea for here. We hear too often of OP that interfere in the relationship, EA's and PA's, this would just facilitate things to make marriages end sooner. Is that the goal that we want to achieve here?
I know how tempted I have been to have a fling or so, but not a good idea, and a place to meet could lead to an affair. Temptation is a powerful motivator, and we HD folks have enough guilt without adding to it with the possibility of Temptaion hanging over our heads.
After the D is all said and done, IF that is what eventually happens, that is another story, but I still think that having a special site like this would be a counterproductive thing to do.
The problem with a site that focuses on HD people is that it would attract amateur porn advertisments and then a bunch of perverts would prey on the (few legitimate) women. Also, I doubt that many woman worth having a relationship with, HD or not, would advertise on a site like that.
BUT, if you want to be adventurous, you might put an ad in adultfriendfinder.com .
Actually, that's not a bad idea because there have been a few HD+HD couples that I have met who spice things up occasionally with a little swinging and kink. The couple in FL who tried to coordinate some "playtime" with me advertise in there. Unfortunately, having a W that's into it is key because alot of single guys are in there for the same reasons. Bummer...wouldn't be nice if the world was full of women as overtly interested as us HD guys? Gosh, if I could just get over this heterosexual thing, my problems would be solved...;)
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