Azzork and Painter,

Thanks for helping me understand.

AK-
1. Will see what the Courts say about CS and abide with it.
2. Doing the GAL...isn't as easy for me though. I always have to push myself to do so. I am still looking for a Divorce/Separation Group in my area. Geez, I'd be happy to even find a singles group that's not all about Party's.
3. Yes to seeing that I will be alright by myself. I am feeling it more and more as time passes.

PR- Man, your insight on CS and wife may not want contact and depending on me for money is spot on. She literally said that.

I spoke with lawyer and this is pretty much par for the course. She will be looking into what I can do but I have to know that how far the lawyer tales it is on my and may even force wife to push hard and this could get nasty. How far to take things and how much will the kids be affected with this. Suggestion was to try and work as mature adults before it gets ugly. Don't do anything drastic that cannot be reversed.