Dwh, I don't look into the Facebook stuff too much, just document when she bags work for no reason, acts like a 12 year old, stuff like that. She actually doesn't post much other stuff . I keep tabs, but only for info! smile Anything on there that could mean it is about us I will most likely screenshot but not let it bother as I may not be about me...

A good gunsafe is key, even if not in a situation like we are! My best friends home burned down in January and his 2 saved sooooo much stuff! I actually bought mine about a week after that happened for the "insurance" factor. Seeing how quickly everything can be lost. When XF left I simply changed the combo on the keypad and put in other valuables, knowing she would be in and out at times.

She does not have a key to my home, changed them locks same day she left. But a lot of value can be shoved into a purse during a "potty break" haha

Me 34, XF 27
Many years together
Son 4
Engaged
Not engaged
Many false starts by XF
7/16 new girlfriend comes into my life
2/17 girlfriend moves in my home