Thanks Uphill. Love your suggestions. My WW is always posting a bunch of junk on FB too. I used to try and read into it, but anymore I don't bother. I finally realized that most of it had nothing to do with me, but more based on how things were going with OM, or whatever other drama was going on in her life. Guess it doesn't hurt to keep track but not sure how useful it would be in a custody case. I do track daily activity and time spent with kids, and will be using that to my advantage when we get to determining custody.

What's strange is that my WW had to give up her normal Monday nights with kids, due to starting on a dart league which plays that night. So I told her I'm wide open to whatever kind of replacement schedule you want to create. She keeps pushing for 50%, which is a min of 3 nights/week, but do you think she can come up with a replacement day? Nope. Keeps saying she's thinking about it but no good ideas yet. There are only 4 other nights in the week, so I can see what a difficult decision it must be (rolls eyes). The real issue is she has "fun" stuff going on the other nights, or they are dedicated to OM. I'm not pushing at all; it's up to her to decide. And if she wants to settle for 2 nights/week, fine by me. This is all getting brought in front of a court at some point so the more time the kids are with me, the better as far as I'm concerned. I honestly don't think she cares all that much, other than how it would potentially affect child support dollars.

Getting mad just thinking about it again. No idea who this person is, that I spent the last 24 years with.


Me 47 W 42
T 24 yrs M 18 yrs
W living with OM
BD1: 3/7/2015 (A with OM#1)
BD2: 4/11/2015 (A with OM#2, W moves out)
WW filed for D, papers received 9/18/2015.
Meeting to determine child custody 9/29/2015.