In my opinion, BEING a person only a fool would leave and SHOWING her a person only a fool would leave are not the same thing.

I dont think that she is paying any attention to the things you are doing right now, because she is fixated on moving out. Its one thing to make these changes when she is watching; it is totally different to make these changes when she is not.

I dont believe that anything will change in the next 5 weeks. I think you shouldnt look at it as a last chance to change things. As co-parents, you will still have plenty of chances for interaction in the future. With that said, you dont want to be "aloof", but you dont want to chat her ear off. Be pleasant and friendly, but you dont want to bear your soul.


Glad that you are back, but Im sorry that your situation hasnt improved.