Originally Posted By: Zues126
I can't believe I still harbor this naive belief about the world but I can't help but think that our pain will be followed by some really good times ahead.
I think so, too, Zues, but I have to say I felt that more strongly a few months ago. I went through a period where I felt like something wonderful was just around the corner. I had no M, no job, recovering from surgery, etc., and I was very optimistic that something great was about to happen. Fast forward and my life is good now, but nothing magical has happened. I'm not complaining about my life, it's a good life, I'm just saying I don't have that optimism I had a while back. Joel Osteen talks about staying in faith, and that's my challenge.

Originally Posted By: PigPen
Sending you a big hug on your difficult day. I hope you got to go running and then ate the chit out of some ice cream.
I did go for a run, I'm not much of a runner, but I was rather proud of myself an idiot for running in that heat. I did not eat ice cream. I do enjoy ice cream, particularly one brand of salted caramel ice cream. But I traded it in for a different vice yesterday. wink

Originally Posted By: rd500
You are more than capable but that doesn't make it easier
Thanks RD. I've always said just because I can take care of myself doesn't mean I want to.

Originally Posted By: asitis
Can you hire some help with some of the household chores? Colleges & Universities often have job boards where you can get that kind of help for a reasonable rate.
Yes, my IC and I talked about that, too. And I've been considering what to hire out and what to tackle myself. I think I'll start a list.

Bets, you are next, but let me just say that your habit of appealing to my logical side is playing dirty. You'll get me with that every time. smile



"Don't look back, you aren't going that way"