When he left I told him he can get them every other weekend..he has had excuses his past few weekends not to come get them..20 more days until court and I can't wait until everything is decided by a judge and in writing..i understand what you're saying about him and her but to me that's just cruel to try to make me be around her in person..it's like another big slap in the face..and she really is a violent aggressive person so I'm not taking my chances..at this point if she tried to get in a fight with me I doubt he would stop her..from what I've heard myself and experienced she despises me..idk if she's jealous or what but it's weird..and my lawyer is going to try to get it to where the girls can't spend the night over there until him and her have been together a year or they're married..the fact that there's a 45 year old man there bothers me too BC I don't trust just anybody around my babies..i need a vacation.i really hope we get to go to Florida in a few weeks


Me-30 H/STBX-32
Daughters-10,7,18 months
M-9 years T-11 years
A few BD's since 2011
H left-March 16,2015
H came back-June 6,2015
Kicked husband out BC he was still seeing OW-June 26,2015