Sorry, Zues. How frustrating it must be to have an incompetent L for such a life-changing event as D. I hope the conversation goes well and that the L sees you are serious and shapes up. But I'm with Jim, maybe replacing her wouldn't be all that bad of a thing if you feel like that's the way to go. After all, a new L might be able to get things rolling again, whereas this L doesn't seem to be able to. The time frame might all wash out in the end.
Other than the L, how are you feeling about the way things are working out legally, child sharing, child support, alimony, property division? Are you and W able to agree on most of it?
